I have to admit, I enjoy a challenge. After all, what's the fun in something if you don't have to sweat a little? Especially with your writing. If others say no to your work or to parts of your story, treat it as a personal challenge. I mean do make it personal. Don't ignore the "no"; pay close attention to it.
Dig deep. Fight for your story. Really look at the comments you are getting from the literary world, including your critique partners. Ask yourself, Is there a general thread or commonality there? If so, try incorporating those comments and suggestions into your work. Then sit back and ask yourself, Is my story now stronger and/or better?
Making a story work takes work. Which means that you have to be prepared to say no yourself. You have to say no to the outside distractions that are fighting to get in . . . like that Netflix series that is beckoning to you to binge watch. Or that closet that suddenly has to be organized. But once you have your story all clean, shiny and new, it will all be worth it.
